Too much empathy

On one routine day, I was in my office. We (staff) came to know that one of my colleagues has some serious personal problem. And after sometime all of our colleagues fell into work expect me. I couldn't concentrate on my work. In the evening, my senior colleague asked me,
"What happened? why are you sad?"
"Ma'am... How pathetic situation it is...!"
"Do you still think about it?"
"It's not getting out of my mind ma'am."
"Can you help her in anyway?"
"Of-course I can't ma'am. Nobody can. right..?"
"Then, there is no point of worrying this much. Isn't it?"
"Yeah. But..."
"Dear... Everybody have their own problems. You too. Aren't you? Don't get effected by other's problems too."
"Yeah. You are right ma'am."
"If you can solve the problem of someone, go and help them. Otherwise just stop thinking about it and deal with your own Life. Life is too short to be too empathetic."

     Yeah... She is right.

Why do we need continuous motivation?

                  You'll get the answer by one question, "Why do we need to fuel our vehicle?". Life is just like a vehicle. If we don't stop for fuel, it'll struck somewhere and anyways we have fuel it.

                 

                  A few days before, on one hectic day, everything seemed to be problematic for me. At one point, I wanted to quit my job. I was fully irritated. I never felt like that before. After office hours, I decided to walk to my home instead of taking city bus, so that I can spend some time alone and I can think about what is happening in my life. 

                The challenges in my office were not new to me. I've faced much bigger challenges before. But I never felt like this. But what happened now...? Thought about it for almost half an hour. I got the difference. The only reason is My way of looking at things has changed. Because of busy life, meditation, books, self help articles and my hobbies got disappeared one by one slowly from my lifestyle. I fell into the 'routine busy life'. I forgot to recharge my mind.

              Felt somewhat relief. Saw my favorite bookshop. It's been so many days since I bought a good book. One book caught my eye which was written by one of my favorite authors, Robin Sharma. Bought that book. The title is superb, 'The leader who had no title.' I read a random page. Felt awesome. Went home happily having a confident feeling that "My days are back". :)

           Here are some tips, which will help you being in track with 'Life' in your days.

• Have one good self-help book with you. It's the best thing which keeps you motivated.
• Write your favorite quote on the wall beside your bed.
• Spend alone for at least 15 minutes a day.
• Have some inspirational songs in  your mobile. Whenever you feel down, you can cheer yourself up with those songs.
• If possible, read one good self-help article everyday.
• Set your desktop wallpaper which reminds you of your goal.
• Help someone.
• Give a smile to a stranger.
• Be crazy.
• Enjoy fully as much as you want to. If you can make yourself happy, you can do anything. :)

 

Finally.... I got it

       Having focus on too many things is meaningless... right? I understood that recently. I  wanted to so many things... just so many. But couldn't do any single thing perfectly. :( Finally I understood my problem. So, I got the solution. :) If we understood our problem, half the job done... right?  :) 
      I must cut down the things I wanna do according to priority. So that I can focus on them well. :) 

Learn to say 'No'

                I was very bad at saying no. And I suffered because of that. One day in office, I was ordered to do extra work and I couldn't handle it. I hesitated to tell that to my boss. And I faced the consequences such as not having enough time to have lunch and not enough time for proper sleep etc. One day I thought I should not do like this, because professional Life is just a part of my Life. I have so many other things in my Life. 

                  And finally I told my boss that I can't handle this anymore. I was shocked by the reply of my boss. He simply said, "Okay. I'll arrange one person to assist you." Problem solved. Such a simple thing. Isn't it...? :) Now, I'm having enough sleep and of-course peace. It's all because I decided to say 'No' to the things for which I'm suffering unnecessarily. Now, that incident is a funny thing for me, as I hesitated to say no in such a simple situation. 

                   Life is precious. We have only limited time here. If we say yes to everything that we faced, we will end up like a dust bin. And it takes a lot of time to clean out everything. But the thing is we have only limited time here. Make most of each and every moment. Some situations in our life may not be because of our choices. But most of Life revolves around the decisions we have taken.

How to say No to unimportant events :-

• Hesitation must not be there. Just say it. And later you will know how simple it is.
• We should say 'no', without hurting anyone, who are involving in that situation. Without hurting others and of-course yourself too.
• But sometimes, you need to be bold-hearted by reminding yourself about the consequences. No problem... You will feel good later. :)

And Finally you will get:-

• Happiness and peace. That's the main theme of everyone's Life. :)
• More time for yourself to Live your fantastic life.
• No regrets in future.
• You will learn about Time management too.

Have you felt Love lately?

When you understand the Love of the one, who cares for you, It feels great.


Thinking of those silly fights you had in the childhood with your friends cum enemies, the smile on your face makes you feel Good.


You are rearranging the things in your home, and suddenly you find your drawings, which were felt as wonderful paintings in your childhood. Just tell me how does it feel... :)


By seeing the same watch you wore, on your favorite celebrity's hand, the love towards your watch increases. Doesn't it? :)


Thinking of the words said by the one, who truly loves you... :)


When you came to know that, your friend still have  the wrapper of the chocolate which was given by you a few years ago. :):):)


Some feelings are awesome when they were felt lately just like the silk of Dairy milk... :)